Relationship Specialists
We specialise in helping couples with their relationships!
That means everything we do has been created to help you find joy and genuine happiness no matter what you may be feeling about your relationship right now!
No matter what the problems or the issues, no matter how big or how small, there IS a way to turn it around quickly! You can be happy and you can MAINTAIN HAPPINESS in your relationship.
Let us show you how!
About
My Path To Happy
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Instant help: Online video & PDF based mini course
(Quick and easy, get answers and solutions straight away, no waiting, start RIGHT NOW!)
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Make a booking: Private 1-1 Relationship Sessions online or in person
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6-Week Intensive Program: The gold standard, get answers and results as well as clear direction in life and a step by step process to follow. Get the transformation you need fast!
Our Approach
Real Change Starts Beneath the Surface
Traditional couples therapy often teaches coping strategies or communication tips — useful in the moment, but rarely life-changing. If you've tried talking more, listening better, or managing conflict, but still feel disconnected… you're not alone.
At My Path To Happy, we go deeper.
We help you uncover the real reasons you’re struggling — not just with each other, but within yourselves.
Our work is based on a unique model we call the Want and Need Relationship Tool that you can access through private 1-1 sessions with us or via the self help online video course we have created. It’s built on one fundamental truth:
"Every relationship is shaped by the interplay of two systems — the survival system and the conscious mind".
Here’s what that means:
As humans, we have two layers of wants and needs:
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Our conscious mind (what we think we want)
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Our subconscious survival system (what we actually need — often hidden, protective, and automatic)
When these systems are in conflict — either within one person or between two partners — disconnection begins.
At first, in the beginning, your survival systems likely aligned beautifully. That’s why it felt so good.
But over time, all relationships change:
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Some couples grow together
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Others grow apart
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Some unknowingly resist change and cling to outdated dynamics
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Others unearth hidden differences that finally come to the surface
Whatever the cause, when internal personal disconnect happens, relationship disconnection will follow and problems grow!
That’s where we come in with either personal 1-1 sessions or with our self help relationship tool.
The Want and Need Relationship Tool helps you:
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Understand the deeper structure behind your emotional reactions
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Map your subconscious needs and conscious desires
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Identify how your inner programming is clashing with your partner’s
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Re-align your system to create space for love, connection, and joy
You don’t need to settle for just “coping.”
You can repair, rebuild, and even fall in love again — starting with yourself.
You really can find peace, harmony, excitement and adventure, you really can find true happiness in your relationship no matter what you think or how you feel about it right now!
But you must take action because nothing will improve until YOU make it happen!
So… make it happen. You have three options:
Option 1: Download the Mini-Course
The Want and Need Relationship Tool video course gives you everything you need to understand what’s really going on in your relationship — and how to turn it around!
You’ll learn the core model, the scale, and the method that explains emotional disconnection and how to rebuild connection from the inside out.
For many couples, this course alone is enough to create real change.
For others, it lays a strong foundation before stepping into deeper 1:1 work.
Option 2: Book Private 1:1 Sessions
Prefer to go deeper with personal guidance? You can work directly with us — either as a couple or individually to start.
Sessions are available in person at our studio or online via Zoom. Together, we’ll uncover the unconscious patterns that are blocking your happiness and help you realign your relationship at its core.
Option 3: The 6-Week Intensive
The gold standard, for those who are serious, committed, and want resolution fast.
This high-end, high-intensity 6-week course is designed to help you reach clarity, resolution, and a direction forward — within a fixed timeframe.
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Up to 4 private 1-1 sessions per week
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Available in person or online
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Deep therapeutic work, subconscious reprogramming, integration, and a step-by-step action plan
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Designed for individuals or couples ready to do the work and get results fast!
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You’re not just paying for sessions — you’re investing in outcomes, transformations and direction in life
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This is the gold standard of transformation, and it delivers — if you fully show up
Start your journey today!
This is where your path to real happiness begins.
If you're tired of relying on luck, hope, or just waiting for things to change…
Then it’s time to learn, understand, and use the Want and Need Relationship Tool — and choose the path that fits you.
Start your journey today.
This is the beginning of something better — the beginning of you finding and maintaining real happiness in your relationship and in your life.
If you don’t want to rely on luck, hope, or guesswork to get the relationship you want and deserve…
Then you need to learn, understand, and use the Want and Need Relationship Tool.
"Like so many others before you, once you understand how it works — you’ll have the power to create the relationship and the life you’ve always been hoping for.
If you don’t, you’re just hoping things fix themselves — and we both know how that usually ends".
The First Big Step is often the hardest part
If you're nervous or don't know where to begin, the Want and Need Relationship Tool Mini-Course is a perfect first step — practical, easy to follow, and designed for real-life schedules.
You can complete it in a day, over a weekend, or spread it across a week — and start shifting your relationship immediately.
Why This Course Works:
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Start immediately — no waiting, no booking, no delays
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Save time and money — lay the foundation before 1:1 work
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Test the method — see how it feels before committing further
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Prove your commitment — show yourself (and your partner) you're ready to change
3 Options for Help
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The Want And Need Relationship Tool
Mini Course.
(Pre-recorded online course + PDF downloads)
Many people have found genuine peace and happiness in their relationship just by completing this powerful course.
Designed to be completed in a day, a weekend, or spread across a few days, this self-paced course gives you everything you need to understand the true foundations of your relationship:
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Why you're feeling the way you are
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What's really going wrong (and why)
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And exactly what to do to get things back on track
No fluff. No filler. Just the real insights, tools, and strategies that have helped countless couples make lasting change — all in one straightforward package.
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Private 1:1 Relationship Sessions
(Online via Zoom or in-person sessions)
If you want to go deeper with expert guidance, private sessions are for you.
Whether you come as a couple or start individually, these sessions help you uncover the subconscious patterns, emotional blocks, and survival-based reactions that are quietly driving your disconnection.
You'll gain:
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Clear understanding of your internal wiring
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Tools to re-align your relationship dynamic
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Personalised guidance to move forward with confidence
These sessions are tailored, compassionate, and powerful — designed to meet you exactly where you are and take you where you want to be.
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The 6-Week Intensive
(High-end, high-impact private program — online or in-person)
This is for those who are serious about creating powerful, lasting change — fast!
The 6-Week Intensive is our gold standard program. It’s designed to help you reach a clear resolution, rebuild connection, and move forward with certainty — all within just six weeks.
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Up to 4 private sessions per week
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A fully guided and personalised plan
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Structured to help you understand, transform, and act
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Delivered online or in-person
You're not just paying for sessions — you're investing in results.
This is fast, focused, and transformational — but it does require your full commitment.
Delivery, support & fees
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The Want And Need Relationship Tool
Mini Course.
( Pre recorded online video based mini course with pdf downloads)
Delivery:
YouTube link to course videos
Automated email with PDF course material downloads
Duration:
1 day min / 1 week max to complete
3 month access
Fees:
$149.00
Support:
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Full email support
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Private Relationship
sessions.
( 1-1 private couples counselling / coaching via zoom or in person)
Delivery:
Zoom Worldwide, online or,
In person @ Auckland / Wellington
Duration:
Session time is 90min max
Session frequency to be agreed
Fees:
$145.00 per couples session
(attending together or individually)
(min x6 sessions are recommended)
Support:
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Additional time outside of main sessions free of charge
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Full private support
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Direct contact
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6-Week Intensive Program
(High-end, high-impact private program — online or in-person)
Delivery:
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Up to 4 private sessions per week (attending together or individually)
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Available online via Zoom or in person at our studio
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Includes custom weekly planning and integration work
Duration:
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6 weeks total (+ 4 week additional support)
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Structured and outcome-focused
Fees:
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Premium pricing — outcome-based model
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$3,000 per couple total
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Afterpay available / payment plans also available
Support:
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Additional time outside of main sessions free of charge
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Full private support
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Direct contact (24/7 when available)
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Want and Need Video Course Included
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4 Weeks additional follow up support free
Success Stories
"My partner and I found our relationship sessions extremely beneficial in improving our communication and understanding. Simon provided a safe and non-judgmental space for us to explore our challenges and understand what was happening."
Hannah & Mark
"Simon was great, he has been invaluable in helping us navigate through a tough phase in our relationship. We've gained valuable insights and tools that have significantly strengthened our bond, this has really helped us."
Mike & James
"We highly recommend both options to any couple seeking professional guidance. The approach is compassionate and friendly but also full of knowledge and no padding or wasted stuff. It has totally transformed our relationship journey."
Sarah & Dean
Experience the Transformation
STEP 1: Introduction to the Want and Need Relationship tool.
Gain knowledge & answers, know why you are experiencing problems and issues
Use the Want and Need Relationship tool to understand what exactly needs to change and how to change it
Results:
Happiness in your relationship and within yourself and the knowledge to maintain it even through life's inevitable challenges.